This is a real thing. I’m not bragging, but I’m well endowed and I’ve had girlfriends legit break up with me over it. It’s got to the point where it has become an insecurity when I’m dating someone and we have sex for the first time. Everything she’s describing is legit. Bruised cervix, yeast infections, vaginal tearing, etc is some of the shit some of my exes had to deal with and it can fuck up the dynamic of the relationship. I would switch to having a small dick over what I have any day of the week.
Had something like this with an ex. I was a lot younger then so it was less problematic, but essentially we’d have to wait 15ish minutes for them to adjust, the whole time I’d be not allowed to “flex” or it’d hurt them. Eventually we found anal to be less painful, after the initial pinch anyway.
Size definitely matters and a lot of people take that as meaning bigger is better, but the reality is that it’s actually pretty horrible. Too big is incredibly painful and causes so many issues, whereas too small just doesn’t feel like anything. There’s a happy medium and it’s usually between 5-8 inches, but obviously varies from person to person. Some people just want more or less and that’s fine too.
Hi_Im_Dadbot says
Dammit, why does my wife insist on airing all our private stuff in public?
herewego199209 says
This is a real thing. I’m not bragging, but I’m well endowed and I’ve had girlfriends legit break up with me over it. It’s got to the point where it has become an insecurity when I’m dating someone and we have sex for the first time. Everything she’s describing is legit. Bruised cervix, yeast infections, vaginal tearing, etc is some of the shit some of my exes had to deal with and it can fuck up the dynamic of the relationship. I would switch to having a small dick over what I have any day of the week.
QutieLuvsQuails says
Ok but she asks THE GUARDIAN for help over a doctor? That’s most of what I need to know.
mizerli says
I’m afraid you will have to file your petition,or sandpaper his.
shellevanczik says
Legit stopped sex in my marriage.
BainbridgeBorn says
Well, I guess being average is best.
Cheers 🍻 🥳
MunchkinFarts69 says
I had a friend who was a big dude. He said it’s not what it’s cracked up to be, because most women literally could not take it. Poor guy.
TheButcherOfBaklava says
Doesn’t want to discuss with their doctor.
Is fine with discussing with a paper.
the_simurgh says
i’m terrible at dating so i don’t have this problem. i have a “i learned to cook like a chef and risk getting fat from it” problem lol
SqueakSquawk4 says
Quick, crosspost this to an incel sub and grab popcorn!
joestaff says
Had something like this with an ex. I was a lot younger then so it was less problematic, but essentially we’d have to wait 15ish minutes for them to adjust, the whole time I’d be not allowed to “flex” or it’d hurt them. Eventually we found anal to be less painful, after the initial pinch anyway.
Sleepdprived says
I’ve had a girl see it and straight up say no…
I’ve had another say “okay we can do this but I want top”
She was a rise to the challenge kind of girl
valley_G says
Size definitely matters and a lot of people take that as meaning bigger is better, but the reality is that it’s actually pretty horrible. Too big is incredibly painful and causes so many issues, whereas too small just doesn’t feel like anything. There’s a happy medium and it’s usually between 5-8 inches, but obviously varies from person to person. Some people just want more or less and that’s fine too.
Spaventoo says
Seems like something that would have been a problem before marriage. Sexual compatibility is important.
Teembeau says
“Let me tell you what Like a Virgin is all about”